TAKE ACTION NOW!
When DADDY & PAPA was created, filmmaker Johnny Symons (Papa) and his partner William Rogers (Daddy) were a committed couple of nearly 10 years, but their union was not officially recognized. In the spring of 2004, they were married in San Francisco as their two sons cheered them on at the City Hall rotunda where thousands waited in line to exchange vows—knowing that forces were already at work to stop them and that their chance may not come again.

You can work to ensure that everyone will have the chance to be legally married and form safe and secure families.
Visit the Human Rights Campaign action center at http://www.hrcactioncenter.org/actioncenter/home.html
to find out what you can do right now.


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PARENTING RESOURCES

Links on this page are grouped by category & Gay Men Becoming Parents, Parenting Resources for Gay Fathers, and Legal & Public Policy Advocacy for Gay Parenting.  But many of these websites contain resources relevant to more than one general category, so we encourage you to check out the first few links in each section for additional relevant information.

GAY MEN BECOMING PARENTS
Including Adoption, Surrogacy, International Adoption, Foster Care

Families Like Ours, Inc.
A non-profit organization that intends to provide adoptive and pre-adoptive gay, lesbian and other non-traditional adoptive families a centralized resource for information and support, primarily through its Adoption Family Center (http://www.adoptionfamilycenter.org/).

The National Adoption Information Clearinghouse
A government-sponsored site that comes close to its stated goal of being a "comprehensive resource on all aspects of adoption," despite neglecting to specifically address adoption by gay men or lesbians.

Pact, An Adoption Alliance
A non-profit organization whose primary mission is "to serve children of color in need of adoption or who are growing up in adoptive families."  Pact has set out to create the webâs most comprehensive site addressing issues for adopted children of color, including many useful resources on transracial adoption.

Adopt.org
General adoption information.

Resolve: The National Infertility Association
Providing thorough general information on adoption, this website is worth a look even though it was not expressly created with gay men in mind.

How to Make Adoption an Affordable Option   by the National Endowment for Financial Education

ParentsPlace.com
Parenting Message Boards

Gay And Adopting

International Adoptions– U.S. State Department
An informative online brochure "providing both information and guidance to U.S. citizens seeking information about international adoptions."

Adoption Resource Exchange for Single Parents
"Advocates and promotes the adoption of older and special needs children by single adoptive parents; provides assistance and information about the process of adoption to single adoptive and prospective adoptive parents."

National Center for Resource Family Support
A source of information, technical assistance, written materials and referrals for resource families who care for children through foster care, adoption, and kinship care

Foster Child Adoption
Provides links related to fost-adoption, including "Foster Parent Adoption: What Parents Should Know."

Introduction to Foster Care Adoption
Good information, despite annoying pop-up ads.

Frequently Asked Questions about Adoption and Fost/Adopt
Briefly explains the fost-adopt process and eligibility in the State of California.

FosterParenting.com
This foster parenting site includes information, discussion boards, and an alphabetical listing of Foster Care Specialists by State.

National Foster Parent Association
An organization that works to support foster parents, improve the foster care system, and provide information about foster care.

Family Builders By Adoption
A popular and well-regarded Bay Area agency specializing in the placement of foster children. More than 50% of the adoptive parents they work with are gay or lesbian.

Growing Generations
"The first and only gay and lesbian owned surrogacy firm primarily serving the gay community worldwide."

EverythingSurrogacy.com
More information on surrogacy, and lots of links for further reading

Circle Surrogacy
A gay-owned surrogacy agency serving couples and singles in the US and around the world.

PARENTING RESOURCES FOR GAY FATHERS
Including Social Groups, Message Boards

Family Pride Coalition
A national organization whose mission is "to advance the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered parents and their families through mutual support, community collaboration, and public understanding."

Our Family Coalition, The San Francisco Bay Area Gay & Lesbian Family Group. Includes many relevant links.
Center Kids, a program of The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center of New York City
Rainbow Families, serving LGBT families of the Upper Midwest
Houston Gay and Lesbian Parents

GAY DADS.INFO
Features the new book GAY DADS: A CELEBRATION OF GAY FATHERHOOD by David Strah as well as a list of adoption sites and resources for gay parents.

COLAGE (Children Of Lesbians And Gays Everywhere)
An international organization which works to support sons and daughters of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender parents as well as to fight the homophobia our families and communities face. Resources include:

Two Lives Publishing
A publisher of children's books for children in lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered families maintains this website, listing books for parents and children and linking to other, web-based resources for LGBT parents and their children.

Tapestry Books - Adoption Book List and Catalog
Hundreds of books for children and adults, organized by topic, and available for order online.

ParentsPlace.com - Parenting Message Boards

Parent Soup & Message Board for Gay and Lesbian Parents

Gay Parent Magazine
Many links to resources.

The Straight Spouse Network
Formerly the Straight Spouse Support Network, SSN is "an international support network of heterosexual spouses and partners, current or former, of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender mates."  This site also references e-mail lists and other online resources that may be of interest to gay or bi men who became parents before coming out.

Surrogacy Consultants of Florida
Florida's first matching and relationship management service serving intended parents and surrogates nationwide.

LEGAL & PUBLIC POLICY ADVOCACY FOR GAY PARENTING

FamilyNet --  A project of the Human Rights Campaign Foundation
An excellent site "for and about gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender families," HRC's FamilyNet includes sections on parenting options and the laws in your state.

EQCA.ORG -- Equality California, and its sister organizations, Equality California Institute and Equality California PAC, share a common mission to ensure and promote dignity, safety and equality for all of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Californians. They are also a leading force in the fight for marriage and family rights in California.

Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund

The Rights of Lesbian and Gay Parents and Their Children (01/31/2002), by Patricia M. Logue, Senior Counsel, Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, Inc.
Overview of State Adoption Laws

ACLU Fact Sheet: Overview of Lesbian and Gay Parenting, Adoption, and Foster Care (April 6, 1999)
IN THE CHILD'S BEST INTERESTS:
Defending Fair and Sensible Adoption Policies (April 1998)

National Center for Lesbian Rights
Adoption (an article about Lesbian Parenting, but applicable to gay men too)

Family Policy Program of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute
NGLTF's program to "engage our communities, legislative advocates, and organizers in the breaking issues and long term strategies critical to the development of a legal atmosphere that protects, recognizes, and supports GLBT families."

Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays (PFLAG)'s information on Parenting & Families

DADDY & PAPA was produced in association with ITVS, the Independent Television Service. 


DISCLAIMER:
The creators of DADDY & PAPA do not particularly support, endorse, or recommend the services or activities of any commercial sites listed here.  These links are provided as a service because we believe the organizations listed provide services, activities, or events that may be of interest to some LGBT parents.  If you have comments or complaints about the information provided, please email us with your concerns at info@daddyandpapa.com.

Parenting Resources compiled by Jeff Byrne.

 
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